I have worked with mostly men nearly my whole working career. First in the Navy, I joined back in 1979. At that time there were still the "old school" men around who didn't think women should be there. Keep in mind, we (women) were not allowed on ships or in battle zones. I guess back then the powers that be weren't enlightened like they are in the 21st century. Even though I knew I could do a heck of a lot better on a ship or in battle than a lot of the guys I worked alongside.
Shortly after leaving the Navy (4 years active duty, 5 years as an active Reservist) I started working in the construction industry. Not in the field, oh no, there weren't too many women doing that. I worked in the office, slowly working my way into a Project Manager position. Then I did get to work in the field. I loved it! I was on a new Microsoft bldg. along with only 3 other women. I fit in well and was respected by the guys. I was good at my job and made $$ for the company. I left that position in July, 2003.
Enough of the background. I've noticed in the last couple of years a craving for the company of other women. It's not that I'm tired of men, I guess my focus has shifted. I just don't want to be around guys. I know they think that women play games or are manipulative - but men can be just as manipulative, in a different way.
I prefer to hear other women's stories. What they've been through in their lives. Do they have kids? Young or grown? Did they get married young? Are they still married? Happy? How has their work life been? Had a satisfying career? Or switched jobs a lot? How is their health? Have they taken good care of themselves? Are fit? or fat?
Most important... Do you feel good about yourself?
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- keatime
- I am a middle aged woman, well-traveled but finally settled into one spot, back home in the Pacific Northwest. I enjoy traveling with my husband, playing with my three ratties and seeing my kids/step-kids healthy and happy.
I sooo understand where you are. I hit the big 50 in 6 weeks and really feel like I'm in a similar place. A platform, if you will, to the next 50 years. You know my background as I know yours and I too often miss the call of the corporate world, of feeling like a part of something bigger but having my own gig also has its' rewards. The sacrifices are longer days than I ever worked in corporate but also with that comes the hope of teaching my son & hopefully leaving him something for his future, of making a difference in the lives we touch and connecting with great people. You are one of those people and I am honored, flattered and blessed to have you in my life. Stay on purpose and you'll do great...JD
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